Sooo… Evelyn went and put on some weight, especially via the hips and the rare and the comments I am getting rather amuse me and if you will get offended by my rant, kindly don’t read this. Don’t get me wrong, I am one of those girls who doesn’t get easily phased by rude people and their rude comments about other people’s weight. I learned to be confident in my own skin after a childhood of being called a boy in my teenage years because I was skinny and being called fat at university because I gained some weight. I am an African woman, I am not made to be skinny, God made made me very beautiful and voluptuous, yes there are some skinny African women who cannot get any bigger even if they eat more than a mini basketball team but we cannot all be like them. Our bodies were made different, some easily absorb fat, others don’t, some lose weight easily, others do not and some we were not made to be skinny or fat, we are too different. Just because there are perfect skinny well toned women in the movies, music videos and magazines does not mean y’all have to expect everyone to be that way because that is not the real image of a real woman. Those women go through a lot to look like that, some go to the extent of starving themselves because they need to get to the perfect size. I for one I am happy with me and so is my man, but there are girls that are easily hurt by some of the comments you people say even if it is out of love, they will starve themselves, swallow pills just to get to society’s acceptable body size because they are not as confident and such words push them to the limit. I do not conform nor ever will to what society wants me too look like or to be, as long as I am happy, healthy and comfortable all that shit y’all say will just be noise to me. I understand how some of you people were raised to always feel like you have the right to say anything that comes out of your mouth but make yourself learn to respect other people even if you have to bite your tongue to do it. There are people who in this life like living off other people’s insecurities to be happy: Stop trying to make yourself look good by making others look bad, it won’t help you in any way, you are going to come off as the jerk ass you are. Sometimes some of you say it out of love but before you say anything mean just because you care about a person calculate your words and why it is your business to even say something. Do not be the reason why as to why someone else is sad and you women do not let yourself be affected by what other people say because that gives them the power to always hurt you. It is my body, I love my curves, my hips and well rounded behind and when I see that I am getting too heavy I will fix that but other than that if you ever feel like telling me how fat I look, kindly get that opinion and shove it right back down your throat. Thank You.